One has to always put the end in mind. But that
is not the only
significant part of the journey. Keep in mind
that when we start any journey, it is always the
destination we look at. But once we reach the
destination, it's the journey that we will
always
remember. We should not be too blinded with the
destination that we forget to enjoy the trip
going there.

Just like in a relationship, you just don't
think
that you should
enter into a relationship because you will
already marry the person. You enter into a
relationship to get to know the person better
and
discern if she indeed could be that person
walking down the aisle with you. You have to
spend some time with her and find out if the two
of you are compatible and could hit it off. You
won't know this by not giving the girl a chance.
You would not know all these things just by the
looks of the girl or your first impression of
her. Once you are in that relationship, that's
the best chance to build on what the two of you
already have.

Don't break up with someone just because you
don't see yourself with
The other person for the rest of your life.
Don't
jeopardize a possibly wonderful relationship.
How would you know that the other person is
the right one if you don't give her/him a chance
to prove her worth? How would you know that
she/he could be the one if you prematurely cut
off the relationship because at the moment you
don't see yourself sharing the future with
her/him? How would you know this if you don't
give her/him the chance? And I tell you that it
will take you a long time (or possibly never) to
find another girl/guy like her/him. Remember
that
its not everyday that you meet someone who has
the magic to let you fall in love!!!

It might be possible that you would still remain
as friends. But being "together" opens a lot of
possibilities and opportunities that friends
do not get. Even if you remain as friends, you
would not be as close as
before. The intensity and the same feeling is no
longer there. The
relationship will no longer be on the same
level.
We can't predict the future, we just need to
hope
and to pray for the best and for what is right
and believe that's how it will be.

In the movie "Can't Hardly Wait", there was a
line in that movie that
Goes something like this: "Fate takes you just
as
far. Destiny is when everything falls right into
place and its just up to you to make it happen."

Destiny is a mixture of chance and of choice.
Its
not a thing to be
waited. You must make it happen. Don't you feel
that everything has already fallen right into
place and its up to you to make it happen?
Everything is just so right and how would the
both of you know if this indeed is fate or "the
plan" if you would not give it a try. The only
way for you to know is to at least give the
relationship a chance and find out for
yourselves. Don't miss this chance of finding it
out because of some unfounded fears.
At least if you give it a try, you can say that
you did your best and
You found out for yourselves. Not just based on
some fear and apprehension that are just part of
the countless possibilities that might happen.
If
it doesn't work, at least, after many years you
would know if the both of you really were meant
for each other rather than regret and bear the
thought of all the things that might have been?
At least you would clear all the "what ifs" and
the "only ifs" in the future. It will give the
both of you peace of mind.

Would you find it too much of a coincidence that
the both of you hit
It off so wonderfully. It seemed that you've
known each other for so long already though you
have not known each other for that long. It
seemed that you knew each other from another
life. And each of you enjoyed every bit of it.
You were like! soul mates who finally found each
other after a very long separation. You had
everything going so well. Everything happened as
if everything just fell right in place. Would
you
consider it fate? It's up to you to make it
happen. What do you think?

You might say "This is something serious and
that
I might be making a big mistake and that I would
just like to play it cool. No room for
ambiguity here. Better, safe than sorry!" Better
safe than sorry?! To be honest, in this world we
live in, there is not a full proof plan that
exist. If you always bear this idea in mind, I
don't know if you would eventually find someone.
You might just be too scared of the bad things
that you would end up missing all the good stuff!

The best that you can do is give the
relationship
a chance. You can
never succeed without even trying. You should
always hope for the best. And to hope is to risk
pain...or satisfaction. To try is to risk
failure
but risk must be taken because the greatest
hazard in life is to risk nothing. To risk
nothing is to risk even more. You might be
taking
the risk of losing the one true thing that
really
matters to you.

Guarantee that you will be second to none. You
would not completely
Know if she/he may already be the one if you
don't give it a try. And it will be more painful
to lose someone you love and who loves you more
just because you are waiting for the right time.
How will you ever know if this is already the
right thing at the right time? What if the time
is now? When will you really know when the right
time is? You cannot love a person too soon for
you would never know how soon it will be too
late. The greatest injustice love can ever
offer
is you not loving at the very right time only to
find out later that it was the right person.

You've got so much going on right now. You have
a
lot of things in
common. Imagine what you can share for tomorrow.
You still have a lot of things ahead of you.
Learn! about each other together. You come to
love not by finding a perfect person but by
learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.
And besides, nobody is perfect.

When you truly love someone you don't look for
faults. You don't look
For answers. You don't look for mistakes.
Instead
you fight for the
mistakes, you accept the faults and you overlook
excuses. If you truly love someone, you just
don't bail out on the other person because there
is something wrong with her. You'll know that
it's true love you are having if you are still
willing to love that person despite of his or
her
flaws or
infirmities.

The reason you met each other may be of destiny.
But if destiny will suggest that you'll live
without her, then why live not by destiny but of
free will?

Listen carefully to what your heart says, enjoy
the feeling of being
In love and do not worry too much about how
things will work out, do not be afraid to love
just because you are afraid to get hurt...