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  1. #11

    Default Re: Need Advice:My wife is having an affair with a co-worker and gaslightin

    TS, base sa kwento mo tingin ko ikaw nalang ang nagmamahal at nagpapahalaga sa pamilya nyo. better to act early than mabaliw kapa kakaicip ng kung anu ano between your wife and the other guy. mahalin mo sarili dahil meron pang anak na umaasa sau TS... Be Stong....

  2. #12

    Default Re: Need Advice:My wife is having an affair with a co-worker and gaslightin

    Quote Originally Posted by kulet2012 View Post
    Ewan ko TS, pero you did your part already. Yung nakikita siguro ng misis mo na lagi naman siyang nay chance sayo kaya siguro hindi siya natatakot sa ginagawa nya.
    Sorry pero hindi na healthy kung yung isa na lang yung lumalaban at yung isa ay nagpapaubaya lang sa kasalanan.
    Sa paglipas ng panahon lalo mo lang sasaktan ang Sarili mo. May mga anak kayo pero hindi ibig sabihin na magdedesisyon ka na makipaghiwalay ay mapapariwara na sila.
    Sa nakikita ko ay napakabuti mong tao kaya magaGuide no mga anak mo sa Pagtanggap ng Katotohanan.
    Sa lahat ng bagay, may katapusan, may hangganan...
    Kung ikaw lang ang PILIT NA GUMAGAWA ng Effort para mabuo pamilya nyo, at siya ay hindi paano pa yan babalik sa dati.

    Opinyon ko lang, bigyan ng ultimatum...
    Pag di pa rin tumigil, HIWALAYAN NA.
    Yes, it's a toxic relationship and not a day passed that I did not worry of being betrayed.
    Thank you po at ganun ang tingin ninyo sa akin. Although I am not perfect at marahil may nakita sya sa guy na wala sa akin.
    But keeping us both only proves how selfish my wife is. She's not really giving up on either of us two.

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    Quote Originally Posted by vhyck View Post
    TS, base sa kwento mo tingin ko ikaw nalang ang nagmamahal at nagpapahalaga sa pamilya nyo. better to act early than mabaliw kapa kakaicip ng kung anu ano between your wife and the other guy. mahalin mo sarili dahil meron pang anak na umaasa sau TS... Be Stong....
    Matigas din kasi ang ulo ko...
    Siguro my tired heart is waiting for the BIG BANG.. yun bang may malalaman ako na hindi ko na makakaya pang i-tolerate.
    Pero ang isip ko, pagod na pagod na at gusto nang sumuko..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dongxkie21 View Post
    cheater is always be a cheater kahit mag bago payan di m alam pag talikod mo gumagawa nanaman nang milagro para lang din cgurong sigarilyo yan sir t.s wag mong biglain na tumigil sa pagmamahal sa kanya pa unti2 itanim mo nalang sa utak mo na walang kwentang tao yang asawa mo at ikaw na mismo sa sarili mo makaka realize na dapat hiwalayan mo sya...
    Tama, a cheater is always a cheater.
    Sadly, cheating was my wife's choice.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rybka View Post
    sa sitwasyon mo parang napakabait mong tao.maraming beses ka ng niloko pero andyan ka parin para sa kanya.alam ko na ginagawa mo ito dahilsa may mga anak kayo at ayaw mong masira ang pamilya mo.pero sa tingin ko dapat gumawa ka nang aksyon sa part mo..legal na aksyon ha baka iba naman gawin mo!kasi hangat di napaparusahan ang mga taong yan gagawin parin nila yan mga manhid na yan sa kasalanan.ikaw ang nagiging mukhang kawawa sa lagay mo ngayon.kumuha ka ng matibay na ebidensya pagsama-samahin mo yun saka mo ilapit sa brgy...tamang tama nag woworkpa pla sa brgy ang guy,mawawalan ng trabaho payan.mahirap ng mapuno baka sumabog ka baka iba pa magawa mo.lahat ng bagay gawin mo sa legal na paraan.
    Thank you.. napapagod na rin ako.
    Praying na dumating yung araw na magbago na ang asawa ko at mahalin niya na ako nang buo at walang kahati.
    Otherwise, sana may malaman na lang ako that would ultimately make me decide to give up on her.

  3. #13

    Default Re: Need Advice:My wife is having an affair with a co-worker and gaslightin

    Magpapauna na ako..Sorry Ts, pero tanung ko sayo, under kaba ng asawa mo? napakalmbot mo para kang walang bayag.Hindi mo ba kaya magdesisyon para sa anak nyo? Nilamon kana ng negatibong emosyon...maraming nagpost ng payo at kung wala kang gagawin..walang kwenta ang lahat ng ito..Im also seeing that you're gaslighting us..No offense..Salamat.

  4. #14

    Default Re: Need Advice:My wife is having an affair with a co-worker and gaslightin

    Quote Originally Posted by VonJB View Post
    I even played a recording of their "I love you's" and "pa-kiss" calls. My mom-in-law heard the recording but did not believe me (of course, she's her daughter) and told me baka ako daw ang gumagawa ng kalokohan. In other words, they knew I was tracking them still but they don't care. Perhaps they enjoy their adventure.

    But whenever I see her trying to be "good" to me, it eases my burdens somehow.
    With that, for me, I don't think there's any more reason to stay. As if cheating isn't bad already, they even has the nerves to turn the tables on you. Gaslighting and turning the tables on you is just their defense mechanism. If that is the kind of person your wife and mother-in-law are then I think you might be in for more misery. I won't be surprised if they start comparing you to the guy because that is another defense mechanism - to pass the blame to you and cover her lustful ways. Perhaps, she knows her daughter might be held legally liable.

    Next, do not fall for her "trying to be good" ways. Her trying to be good ways are just breadcrumbs of attention and it can never compensate for all the misery and pain that you are going through right now. She's kinda amusing that she chose to "try to be good" instead of doing the right thing of ending the affair.

    Lastly, if you are waiting for the big bang (worst news) to happen before deciding to take actions or leave then just make sure that you won't do something nasty like killing the guy in the process. You will be legally liable if you kill him out of confrontation or anger. The only time a husband can legally get away after killing a 3rd party is when he caught his wife and the guy having sex. If he can't control his anger then he should kill him right then and there. But if he waited for a day or two before confronting the guy and killing him in the process then that's murder/homicide. However, the only thing that I'm not sure of is whether the couple should be legally married or not to be covered by that law. So plan your moves right.

  5. #15

    Default Re: Need Advice:My wife is having an affair with a co-worker and gaslightin

    Saludo ako sayo sir.
    Be strong sa next step mo po.

  6. #16

    Default Re: Need Advice:My wife is having an affair with a co-worker and gaslightin

    Ka-Mobi,
    Isangguni mo sa ACTS kay Tulfo. Kalimitan, kahit idulog mo sa barangay hindi ka sure sa tulong na magagawa nila sa iyo.
    Panoorin mo yung mga ganyang cases sa youtube na ginawan ng paraan ni Raffy Tulfo pero yung solusyon ay manggagaling pa rin sa napagkasunduan ng dalawang panig. Sa tingin ko, titigil yan. may mga pinanghahawakan ka namang ebidensiya.

    Sobra na yan at masyado ng mali. Pero payo din ng ibang ka-Mobi. Matigil man yan, yung posibleng maging resulta ang paghandaan mo.
    Obvious naman na hindi ka na mahal ng kinakasama mo (sorry to say, di pa kayo kasal di ba)?
    Yung mga bata, alam mo na rin kung kanino mapunta once matuloy yang hiwalayan nyo. nasa batas yan, ka-Mobi.
    Mahal na mahal mo yung mga bata, eh siya ba? Si third party, hinihintay kang gumive-up, yun ang pakay nya. Yung kinakasama mo yung gustong masira ang pamilya mo. Kasi kung ayaw na, may paraan.

  7. #17

    Default Re: Need Advice:My wife is having an affair with a co-worker and gaslightin

    may mga ganyan talagang mga babae

  8. #18

    Default Re: Need Advice:My wife is having an affair with a co-worker and gaslightin

    Quote Originally Posted by jessiesux View Post
    Ano yan paps. ireklamo mo yang lalaki sa brgy. para mahiya nmn konti yang lalaki na yan. kung di pa rin tumigil patayin nalang natin. Wala ng kwenta ang mga taong naninira ng pamilya.
    kaya nga paps eh, sobrang bait netong si ka myembro natin, you give them a chance kung ayaw pa, aba gumawa kana ng paraan, kung gusto ayaw masira ang pamilya mo! then kill the fucking guy , mag kanu lang hired killer ngaun if you know the right person to call.. nakakagago yan saating mga lalaki, wag mo nang hintayin na umabot sa ponto ng ma black out ka, ikaw magawa ng hindi tama, hanggat maaga pa umaksyon kana habang ok pa ang pag iisip mo.

  9. #19

    Default Re: Need Advice:My wife is having an affair with a co-worker and gaslightin

    Ang masasabi ko lang syo Ts wag kang magpaka T-A-N-G-A sa taong walang pagpapahalaga syo (sorry for the words) Actually hindi mo na kailangan ang payo ng ibang tao alam mo ang sagot sa mga katanungan mo. harap harapan kang niloloko ng kinakasama mo pero parang wala kang ginagawa, kaya yung kinakasama mo patuloy pa din sa panloloko syo. Kung sa ibang lalaki ginawa yan sure ko nagkagulo na or nilayasan na yang ganyang babae. Ikaw na din nagsabi hindi kayo kasal at marami syang alibi pag sinasabi mong magpakasal na kayo. Sa tingin mo mahal ka nyan o baka may inaantay syang ibang lalaki na gusto nyang pakasalan. Payo ko lang syo ts mag move on ka na hindi na maganda ang pagsasama nyong dalawa. kung yung mga anak mo iniisip mo pwede mo naman silang sustentuhan at dalawin. maraming naghihiwalay na maayos naman ang nagiging lagay ng mga anak nila basta continues communication lang sa mga bata. swerte mo pa nga hindi kayo kasal kung nagkataon na kasal kayo baka mamulubi ka sa Annulment. o di kaya habang buhay kang nakatali sa babaeng nanloloko syo.
    Last edited by brixzer; 14th Aug 2019 at 03:53.

  10. #20

    Default Re: Need Advice:My wife is having an affair with a co-worker and gaslightin

    ito lng masasabi ko pre.. based on actual experience.. MOVE ON!!!!! took me 8 death dealing months pero naka move on din ako..
    I even resorted to being a fckboy para punan ang feeling pero wala din.. in the end.. KONTENTO ako sa sarili ko.. yun lng..

    Pinapalaki mo yung gulo if habol ka ng habol..

    Legal matters what for? para makipag sama ka ng ahas? wew.. learn to let go and move on..
    Last edited by dsx666; 14th Aug 2019 at 06:41.

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